This Is What Zero Tolerance For Abuse Looks Like
Squash negative demands and action, however minor, fast. Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay Honestly, it really wasn't a big deal. I knew...
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Nicole Chardenet
- May 13, 2022
- 7 min
What Abuse Victims Can Learn From Prison Groupies
Women who love monsters are merely the extremest of the Bad Boy lovers Richard Ramirez with one of his many sweeties. Photo by Mario...
Nicole Chardenet
- May 2, 2022
- 5 min
The First Guy To Hit Me Was The Last
And here’s why it never happened again Photo by ramzi hashisho from FreeImages (cropped) “Ugly dog!” I heard that a lot my last two years...
Nicole Chardenet
- Apr 30, 2022
- 6 min
Mama Didn’t Raise No Victim Feminist
Don’t blame the victim? Don’t BE the victim Photo by Sarah Cervantes on Unsplash Blame my anti-feminist mother for my belief that women...
Nicole Chardenet
- Apr 29, 2022
- 7 min
Are You Too Tolerant Of Abuse?
Have you got the labia to challenge your friends’ choices? Photo by Philipp Wüthrich on Unsplash She was so damned cute, reddish-brown...
Nicole Chardenet
- Apr 15, 2022
- 9 min
Amber & Johnny: A Violent Tale With No Innocent Victims
They remind us we need to talk about female Intimate Partner Violence, too - and acknowledge how similar are the dynamics Amber Heard CC...
Nicole Chardenet
- Apr 8, 2022
- 8 min
When Being Wrong Is Worse Than Being Abused
How much are we willing to tolerate to avoid acknowledging a mistake? Your self-image is the biggest liar of all. Photo by Geralt on...
Nicole Chardenet
- Mar 29, 2022
- 4 min
What If Women Refused To Have Sex With Abusive Men?
Would they die with their bike grip-shaped dick in their hand? My fantasy of what a North American new-members incel convention will look...
Nicole Chardenet
- Mar 26, 2022
- 8 min
The 5 Best Books For Avoiding Abusive Relationships
Enjoy the abuse-free life I've always enjoyed I hope they're reading Dina McMillan's book. Photo by Oleg Magni from Pexels If there's one...
Nicole Chardenet
- Feb 21, 2022
- 6 min
Do You Have A Thing For Abusers?
My friend did. She couldn’t see the red flags Photo by Jesús Boscán on Unsplash I used to go clubbing back in the day with a woman who...
Nicole Chardenet
- Feb 4, 2022
- 8 min
Time To Ask Certain Feminists Some Hard Questions
"Why doesn't she leave him?" and "Why does she tolerate such behavior?" are no longer off the table. Image by Chloe Lemieux from Pixabay...
Nicole Chardenet
- Jan 4, 2022
- 9 min
How Can Men Tell Their Stories And Challenge Toxic Feminism?
Men, I offer my own experience and encourage you: Please, go forth and write! Photo by Andres Ayrton from Pexels Everyone’s tribe is...
Nicole Chardenet
- Dec 4, 2021
- 11 min
The Girl’s Guide To Avoiding Abusers
What your mother may not have told you, because she didn’t know herself Photo by Ali Tareq on Unsplash Within weeks of moving to Toronto...
Nicole Chardenet
- Nov 13, 2021
- 10 min
How Can Women Choke The Life Out Of Dating App Misogyny?
Nancy Jo Sales’s book on addictive, toxic mobile apps reveals how women still cater to men and blame it all on ‘misogyny’ Photo by Mad...
Nicole Chardenet
- Jul 29, 2021
- 8 min
What ‘The Hangover’ Got Right About Domestic Abuse
What do those rationalizations sound like when a man says them? Image by Sasin Tipchai from Pixabay Guys, you don’t understand. Melissa...
Nicole Chardenet
- Jul 26, 2021
- 7 min
Telling Your Truth: The Anonymity Credibility Dilemma
Who are you? Why should I believe your story? Photo by Cassidy Dickens on Unsplash I wrote an article awhile back — Men, We Need You To...
Nicole Chardenet
- Mar 29, 2021
- 7 min
Why I ‘Scream Into The Void’ About Growing Some Labia
Why is there a dearth of research on the psychology of female victimhood? Photo by Anete Lusina from Pexels A high school friend took...
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