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The Female Collaborators Of Clueless Masculinity

The latest 'No news here' study on men's undateability ignores the problems with women, and how we continue to raise boys In more...

I Think I Was Groomed For Abuse Once

But only once. Not sure what he saw in me. Surely not victimhood… Photo by Charles C. Collingwood on Unsplash He did a double take as he...

Porn Is Intrinsically Toxic For Men (And Women Too)

But is porn the problem, or *mainstream* porn? What does ‘better’ porn look like? Photo by Jens Karlsson on Flickr CC0 2.0 (and some...

The Guy’s Guide To Talking To Women

From a non-misandrist & hopefully helpful standpoint Graphic by Jose The Storyteller on Pixabay (quote added) Talking to women is a...

No More Allowing Angry Misogynists To Set The Rules

A book on dating app culture demonstrates how misogyny persists when women *allow* it. When we don’t tolerate bad men, they disappear. I...

The Sexbots For Men Are Coming. What About Lovebots For Women?

With emotional AI, we won't need you either, boys. But will it solve our problems, or make us more miserable? He's everything you always...

Do You Have A Thing For Abusers?

My friend did. She couldn’t see the red flags Photo by Jesús Boscán on Unsplash I used to go clubbing back in the day with a woman who...

What’s So Terrible About Short Guys, Ladies?

What if he doesn’t have Short Guy’s Disease? Al Pacino is eye level with Tom Cruise at 5'7", but it hasn’t stopped him from bedding some...