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That's what we say to men when we think they're acting weak. "Grow some balls!" 

So what do we say when women are acting weak? We can't very well tell them to grow some balls. Women can't, of course!

Women need to 'grow some labia'! They're the parts of the vagina that would have become the scrotum for the balls had she been born a male instead (and since she didn't, what would have been her balls are her ovaries).
But I doubt you came here for a female anatomy lesson. It's time for us to grow some labia and woman up, show more strength, challenge ourselves more. Time to take more charge and responsibility for our lives, and spend less time blaming 'The Patriarchy' or systemic sexism.
Those things exist, for sure, but at some point
we've got to recognize the buck stops with the
woman in the mirror and we need to claim our
power (or reclaim it if we gave it away somehow!)
So it's time for women everywhere to


I've written a few blog posts about how we can do exactly that and reclaim our power!
Time To Ask Feminists Some Hard Questions
"Why doesn't she leave him?" and "Why does she tolerate such behavior?" are no longer off the table.
Don't Be The Victim: Patch Your Brain
Like a computer network, one attacker can bring down the whole system if he finds your vulnerability first
The #1 Red Flag Of The Abusive Man
The misogyny backlash is here. The government won't help. It's up to women to avoid violent men.
Moving Beyond Man-Hating
It's time to confront victim feminism's self-imposed disempowerment. Who's truly holding us back?
Men, We Need You To Tell Your Truths Too
Don’t like how you’re treated? Don’t like the racism and misandry? Feel abused? Tell us why. Yes, I’m serious.
What If Women Refused To Have Sex With Abusive Men?
Would they die with their bike grip-shaped dick in their hand?
Why I Scream Into The Void About 'Growing Some Labia'
Why is there a dearth of research on the psychology of female victimhood?
Do You Have A Thing For Abusers?
My friend did, and she couldn’t see the red flags
...and many, many more articles, not just about a new feminism for the 21st century but on racism, politics, the gender madness and many other topics. 
Image by Marcus Lewis
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