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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!


What We Can Learn From Nicole Brown Simpson’s Bad Choices
One of O.J.’s wives didn’t tolerate abuse. The other did. On the 28th anniversary of the world's most famous domestic homicide, let's...
Jun 12, 2022


Smashing The Patriarchy? What's In It For Men?
Some men still resist women's equal rights. But what if a more egalitarian society brings them...certain benefits? Does he look like he's...
Jun 1, 2022


Who Cares What Others Think About Your Looks?
Why do women care? What could we accomplish if we didn’t? “Do I look old? I don’t really look old, do I?” Photo by debra123 on Needpix I...
May 10, 2022


Here’s Your Big Pile Of Shit
This is your life. Now who’s going to clean that up? Relax, it's just a sculpture. CC0 2.0 photo by Guano (of course!) on Flickr)...
May 8, 2022


Why I Don’t Fight For Your Tribe Or My Own
Systemic discrimination isn’t just to your disadvantage. It’s to mine too. CC0 2.0 photo by InvestmentZen on Flickr I’ll admit: I don’t...
May 7, 2022


If It’s That Hard To Be A Woman, You’re Doing It Wrong
Life is hard for men too. Deal with it. Image from Claudio_Scott on Pixabay North American women do love to complain. It’s a privilege...
May 5, 2022


The First Guy To Hit Me Was The Last
And here’s why it never happened again Photo by ramzi hashisho from FreeImages (cropped) “Ugly dog!” I heard that a lot my last two years...
May 2, 2022


Mama Didn’t Raise No Victim Feminist
Don’t blame the victim? Don’t BE the victim Photo by Sarah Cervantes on Unsplash Blame my anti-feminist mother for my belief that women...
Apr 30, 2022


The Guy’s Guide To Talking To Women
From a non-misandrist & hopefully helpful standpoint Graphic by Jose The Storyteller on Pixabay (quote added) Talking to women is a...
Apr 16, 2022


Book Review: Real Help by Ayodeji Awosika
Ayo starts by surgically removing your excuses for why you can't move your life forward I love the nerdy Bill Gates shirt. Photo from...
Apr 13, 2022


When Being Wrong Is Worse Than Being Abused
How much are we willing to tolerate to avoid acknowledging a mistake? Your self-image is the biggest liar of all. Photo by Geralt on...
Apr 8, 2022


How Much Is Genuine Disadvantage Holding You Back?
Are you only holding half the problem accountable? CC0 photo by Kushagra on Pixahive "I’m not allowed to do this. I’m not allowed to feel...
Apr 5, 2022


No More Allowing Angry Misogynists To Set The Rules
A book on dating app culture demonstrates how misogyny persists when women *allow* it. When we don’t tolerate bad men, they disappear. I...
Apr 2, 2022


"But He Says He Loves Me!": The Women's Abuse Prevention Manual
Dina McMillan's book offers rock-solid advice on how abusive men think and strategize, and how to avoid them Avoiding abuse is easier...
Mar 17, 2022


Don’t Be The Victim: Patch Your Brain
Your brain is like a computer network. One attacker can bring down the whole system if he finds your vulnerability first Image by GDJ on...
Mar 4, 2022


The Sexbots For Men Are Coming. What About Lovebots For Women?
With emotional AI, we won't need you either, boys. But will it solve our problems, or make us more miserable? He's everything you always...
Feb 27, 2022


The #1 Red Flag Of The Abusive Man
The misogyny backlash is here. The government won't help. It's up to women to avoid violent men. Public domain photo by kalhh on Pixabay...
Feb 23, 2022


Moving Beyond Man-Hating
It's time to confront victim feminism's self-imposed disempowerment. Who's truly holding us back? Photo by Anthony Tran on Unsplash The...
Jan 8, 2022


I Want To Be Nancy Pelosi When I Grow Up
Pelosi 'doesn't do fear' and embodies toxic masculinity's worst nightmares about female power U.S. Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi:...
Dec 24, 2021


I Was A Feminist Belly Dancing Tool Of ‘The Patriarchy’
And I enjoyed every damn minute of it. No apologies. Photo from PxFuel I blasted Celestria with my finest feminist...
Aug 22, 2021


Which Kind of Narcissist Are You?
Because guess what, we’re *all* narcissists! Seriously. “Are you a good narcissist, or a bad narcissist?” Creative Commons 2.0 image by...
Aug 4, 2021
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