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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!

Oct 12, 2024
A Frenchwoman Is Dead Serious About Holding ALL Her Rapists Accountable
The Gisele Pelicot case highlights just how frighteningly high is the number of 'normal' men who have a penchant for, and might be...

Jul 31, 2024
The 'Sheila Agreement': How To Manage Conflict Like Big Girls (And Boys)
An ex-friend pulled a Mean Girl on both myself and another friend, so we devised a way to avoid hurt feelings with better conflict...

May 21, 2024
Bitch: When I Was The Abuser (Part II)
It takes two for an abusive relationship. Because an abuser can't abuse a person who isn't there. This is Part II. Bitch: When I Was The...

Apr 29, 2024
What Both Women & Men Can Learn From The Sordid Andrew Huberman Affair(s)
He was good at playing women, but he offers further lessons on red flag recognition, as well as a helpful lesson for single men who don't...

Apr 6, 2024
How I Grew a Pair (Of Labia) And Left An Abusive Marriage: Guest Post Part I
Persephone Phoenix shares how women need to follow their own hero cycle. 'You go through hell and you triumph in the end. No one will...

Nov 11, 2023
Pat Benatar Was A Better Listen In The '80s Than Whitney Houston
The content we consume normalizes values and beliefs in our brains in ways we don't even know, whether good or bad. Thank Goddess I...

Oct 29, 2023
So What Happens When You Vote And Work For A Known Sexual Predator?
Cassidy Hutchinson learned the hard way. Let’s say Rex Heuermann, the accused in the Long Island Gilgo Beach murders arrested this...

Aug 26, 2023
Abusive Partners And Crazy Stalkers: Where Your Power Lies
Did you know you even have any? And that not all death threats are equal? Or that not all stalkers are serious threats? I don’t know why...

Aug 19, 2023
A Man's Suicide Started With A DEI Consultant's 'Antiracism' Workshop
Are bullying, nasty labels and encouraged pile-ons really the best way to fight 'systemic racism', or was the purpose to galvanize it? A...

Jul 15, 2023
How To Handle A Woke Bully
If you're going to act like a woke dickhead, do it somewhere anonymously, not under your real name on Linkedin I forget what the LinkedIn...

Apr 29, 2023
What Can We Learn From This Woman's Abusive Relationship?
The red flags were everywhere. 'Maria' has no idea where she made mistakes, and no one will tell her. The truth hurts too much....

Mar 11, 2023
A Tampa Woman Fought Off Her Would-Be Rapist - Could We?
And she put the kibosh on his future raping activities, at least for now "The more fight you put the more they want to give up. If I keep...

Jan 28, 2023
What Greta Thunberg Teaches Us About How To Handle Small Dick Energy
A teenage activist outs Andrew Tate, the Internet's most insecure manchild, and teaches us how to pwn these guys ourselves Queen of the...

Aug 14, 2022
'Private' Domestic Violence Is Now Everyone's Business
Mass shooter normalization demonstrates domestic abusers are no longer just a threat to their families Public domain photo from Rawpixel...


Aug 6, 2022
This Is What Zero Tolerance For Abuse Looks Like
Squash negative demands and action, however minor, fast. Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay Honestly, it really wasn't a big deal. I knew...


Jun 12, 2022
What We Can Learn From Nicole Brown Simpson’s Bad Choices
One of O.J.’s wives didn’t tolerate abuse. The other did. On the 28th anniversary of the world's most famous domestic homicide, let's...


May 12, 2022
What If Human Women Challenged Male Aggression Like Bonobos?
The end of male aggression lies with us, not men. We can learn from our matriarchal cousins. CC0 2.0 photo by LaggedOnUser on Wikimedia...


Apr 30, 2022
Mama Didn’t Raise No Victim Feminist
Don’t blame the victim? Don’t BE the victim Photo by Sarah Cervantes on Unsplash Blame my anti-feminist mother for my belief that women...


Apr 17, 2022
Porn Is Intrinsically Toxic For Men (And Women Too)
But is porn the problem, or *mainstream* porn? What does ‘better’ porn look like? Photo by Jens Karlsson on Flickr CC0 2.0 (and some...

Apr 2, 2022
No More Allowing Angry Misogynists To Set The Rules
A book on dating app culture demonstrates how misogyny persists when women *allow* it. When we don’t tolerate bad men, they disappear. I...


Mar 29, 2022
What If Women Refused To Have Sex With Abusive Men?
Would they die with their bike grip-shaped dick in their hand? My fantasy of what a North American new-members incel convention will look...
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