The 'Sheila Agreement': How To Manage Conflict Like Big Girls (And Boys)
An ex-friend pulled a Mean Girl on both myself and another friend, so we devised a way to avoid hurt feelings with better conflict...
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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!
- Jun 16
"Hey, Where Are You From?" Must Become Socially Acceptable Again
Screw the social just-us warriors. Where you hail from is as much a part of your genuine 'identity' as which pronouns du jour you...
- May 21
Bitch: When I Was The Abuser (Part II)
It takes two for an abusive relationship. Because an abuser can't abuse a person who isn't there. This is Part II. Bitch: When I Was The...
- May 18
Bitch: When I Was The Abuser (Part I)
When I say, 'Don't LET anyone treat you like that,' or 'Don't BE the victim,' I speak from personal experience. As a temporary ex-abuser....
- May 8
"Don't Be Like Me"--One Man's Escape From Abuse (Guest Post by Jim McCoy)
Acceptance of reality means understanding you were abused. It can happen to men too. It's not funny or cute. And God help us all, it is...
- Apr 29
What Both Women & Men Can Learn From The Sordid Andrew Huberman Affair(s)
He was good at playing women, but he offers further lessons on red flag recognition, as well as a helpful lesson for single men who don't...
- Apr 6
How I Grew a Pair (Of Labia) And Left An Abusive Marriage: Guest Post Part I
Persephone Phoenix shares how women need to follow their own hero cycle. 'You go through hell and you triumph in the end. No one will...
- Mar 2
Where Does 'Slavery Trauma' Really Come From?
Is it epigenetic, or do we all traumatize ourselves with historical knowledge? The dreams of medieval tortures began when I was around...
- Feb 2
Donald Trump Offers A Terrific Lesson On How Rape Victims Can Get True Justice
THIS is how they can take back their power from their accused rapist in court--and win! Yanno, Donald Trump could have saved himself a...
- Jan 27
Why Not Vote For A Completely Different Evil This November?
Are you voting for someone with a fuzzy grip on reality? Or against your own interests? Independents will never win, but why not send a...
- Dec 31, 2023
Just A Quick One For The Holidays - Life, Death & Kurt Vonnegut
It's probably not politic to bitch about politics, or anything else, during Christmas Week, don't you think? Happy holidays to all of my...
- Dec 2, 2023
Did You Ever Save Someone's Life And You Never Knew It?
Are you the butterfly's wing that will change generations? Don't laugh. "The voice of a single individual ... would have prevented this...
- Nov 11, 2023
Pat Benatar Was A Better Listen In The '80s Than Whitney Houston
The content we consume normalizes values and beliefs in our brains in ways we don't even know, whether good or bad. Thank Goddess I...
- Oct 21, 2023
On The Eternal Whiteness Of Being
White people can be committed to genuine social justice if blacksplainers stop making it so hard to be allies. I’ve been learning a lot...
- Oct 11, 2023
The Worst Thing That Happened To Me May Have Saved My Life
Have you ever reverse-engineered your life? What didn't you realize before? “You have a time machine, you can pick one thing in your life...
- Oct 7, 2023
Feminists Against Women: When They Won't Say No To Men, They Harm All Females
Over-inclusivity endangers women and opens the door to sexual predators intent on eroding female agency. Stop being so *nice*, girls! The...
- Sep 30, 2023
How To Stop Being An Asshole, From An Expert
Step One: Get Over Yourself I want to make one thing perfectly clear: I am still an asshole. Just not the kind that starts wars on...
- Sep 23, 2023
Crony Beliefs: When It's More Important To Feel Right Than To *Be* Right
When we hold 'merit' beliefs, we can kill our 'little darlings' and change our minds when confronted with newer or better evidence I...
- Sep 16, 2023
Therapy Is The Super-Spreader Of Wokeness
''Critical Social Justice' has infiltrated the mental health industry and spreads rather than contains wokeness's harmful ideas Well this...
- Sep 9, 2023
The Left And The Right Must Work Together, Or Die
We libs *can* work with the right on some issues without assimilation into the Mar-A-Borg-o cult Pejorative labels are meant to control...
- Aug 26, 2023
Abusive Partners And Crazy Stalkers: Where Your Power Lies
Did you know you even have any? And that not all death threats are equal? Or that not all stalkers are serious threats? I don’t know why...
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