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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!
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Dec 2, 2023
Did You Ever Save Someone's Life And You Never Knew It?
Are you the butterfly's wing that will change generations? Don't laugh. "The voice of a single individual ... would have prevented this...
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Nov 11, 2023
Pat Benatar Was A Better Listen In The '80s Than Whitney Houston
The content we consume normalizes values and beliefs in our brains in ways we don't even know, whether good or bad. Thank Goddess I...
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Oct 29, 2023
So What Happens When You Vote And Work For A Known Sexual Predator?
Cassidy Hutchinson learned the hard way. Let’s say Rex Heuermann, the accused in the Long Island Gilgo Beach murders arrested this...
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Oct 21, 2023
On The Eternal Whiteness Of Being
White people can be committed to genuine social justice if blacksplainers stop making it so hard to be allies. I’ve been learning a lot...
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Sep 30, 2023
How To Stop Being An Asshole, From An Expert
Step One: Get Over Yourself I want to make one thing perfectly clear: I am still an asshole. Just not the kind that starts wars on...
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Sep 23, 2023
Crony Beliefs: When It's More Important To Feel Right Than To *Be* Right
When we hold 'merit' beliefs, we can kill our 'little darlings' and change our minds when confronted with newer or better evidence I...
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Aug 26, 2023
Abusive Partners And Crazy Stalkers: Where Your Power Lies
Did you know you even have any? And that not all death threats are equal? Or that not all stalkers are serious threats? I don’t know why...
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Aug 19, 2023
A Man's Suicide Started With A DEI Consultant's 'Antiracism' Workshop
Are bullying, nasty labels and encouraged pile-ons really the best way to fight 'systemic racism', or was the purpose to galvanize it? A...
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Jun 17, 2023
Resisting My Would-Be Right-Wing Puppet Masters
As I explore t'other sides of the North American political divide, I will not join the Illuminazi Pretty sure my largely liberal-leaning...
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Jun 10, 2023
'Don't Call Me Karen' Doesn't Go Over Well At Uber
A diversity specialist challenges the 'strategic ignorance' of those who'd rather not be on the other side of 'uncomfortable...
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Apr 29, 2023
What Can We Learn From This Woman's Abusive Relationship?
The red flags were everywhere. 'Maria' has no idea where she made mistakes, and no one will tell her. The truth hurts too much....
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Apr 15, 2023
Porn, Sex Positivity And The Left--It's 'Complicated'
Anti-porn activists may have had a bit of a point. Is there a healthier middle ground between today's violent sexual exploitation and...
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Mar 25, 2023
Conspiracy Theories Are Everywhere. We Are Doomed!
What makes us so sure *any* of us think critically about the ideas we consume? The Middle East looked pretty damned stupid to me, in the...
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Mar 11, 2023
A Tampa Woman Fought Off Her Would-Be Rapist - Could We?
And she put the kibosh on his future raping activities, at least for now "The more fight you put the more they want to give up. If I keep...
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Jan 28, 2023
What Greta Thunberg Teaches Us About How To Handle Small Dick Energy
A teenage activist outs Andrew Tate, the Internet's most insecure manchild, and teaches us how to pwn these guys ourselves Queen of the...
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Jan 21, 2023
Does The Narcissism Obsession Prevent Us From Loving Ourselves?
We're all on the narcissism spectrum. Aspire to be in the right place, and practice healthy self-love. No one wants to be labeled A...
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Dec 18, 2022
Why Do We Only Judge Successful Men By $$$?
Why do we not hold them equally accountable for the human beings they co-created? I pissed off some LinkedIn Elon Musk fanboys a few...
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Nov 23, 2022
The Most Politically Incorrect Offices Ever Were My Best Bonding Experiences
Joking about differences knit us into tight, supportive teams. We need to bring that back before the left’s Fragile Flowers destroy us....
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Nov 4, 2022
Ann Hathaway Took Back Her Power
Getting shamed, flamed, and filleted on Twitter ten years ago reshaped the actress's view on hate. Then she rejected it. Ann Hathaway is...
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Oct 28, 2022
The Female Collaborators Of Clueless Masculinity
The latest 'No news here' study on men's undateability ignores the problems with women, and how we continue to raise boys In more...
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Oct 20, 2022
America Is In Real Crisis. Why Did We Let This Happen?
A bunch of chickie-boos registering post-Roe to vote for the very first time points to how we Americans sleepwalk through elections,...
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