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Labia Power! Blog
About feminist empowerment, better choices, and not being afraid to reclaim your power and wield it for the forces of good. I also critically examine the culture wars and how we can reclaim liberalism from the illiberals, and work with our compatriots on the Rational Right. And occasionally some silly stuff!


Who Cares What Others Think About Your Looks?
Why do women care? What could we accomplish if we didn’t? “Do I look old? I don’t really look old, do I?” Photo by debra123 on Needpix I...
May 10, 2022


I Think I Was Groomed For Abuse Once
But only once. Not sure what he saw in me. Surely not victimhood… Photo by Charles C. Collingwood on Unsplash He did a double take as he...
May 5, 2022


If It’s That Hard To Be A Woman, You’re Doing It Wrong
Life is hard for men too. Deal with it. Image from Claudio_Scott on Pixabay North American women do love to complain. It’s a privilege...
May 5, 2022


The First Guy To Hit Me Was The Last
And here’s why it never happened again Photo by ramzi hashisho from FreeImages (cropped) “Ugly dog!” I heard that a lot my last two years...
May 2, 2022


Are You Too Tolerant Of Abuse?
Have you got the labia to challenge your friends’ choices? Photo by Philipp Wüthrich on Unsplash She was so damned cute, reddish-brown...
Apr 29, 2022


My First Encounter With Feminist Porn
Porn created by women *for* women had to be light-years better than male-created porn, right? Right? Photo by Arianna Jadé from Pexels...
Apr 22, 2022


Dumb Shit I’ve Done
I didn’t get raped, but I sure made it easy for them Photo by Jody Halsted on Flickr I spend a lot of time thinking about how we can...
Apr 19, 2022


Porn Is Intrinsically Toxic For Men (And Women Too)
But is porn the problem, or *mainstream* porn? What does ‘better’ porn look like? Photo by Jens Karlsson on Flickr CC0 2.0 (and some...
Apr 17, 2022


The Guy’s Guide To Talking To Women
From a non-misandrist & hopefully helpful standpoint Graphic by Jose The Storyteller on Pixabay (quote added) Talking to women is a...
Apr 16, 2022


Amber & Johnny: A Violent Tale With No Innocent Victims
They remind us we need to talk about female Intimate Partner Violence, too - and acknowledge how similar are the dynamics Amber Heard CC...
Apr 15, 2022


When Being Wrong Is Worse Than Being Abused
How much are we willing to tolerate to avoid acknowledging a mistake? Your self-image is the biggest liar of all. Photo by Geralt on...
Apr 8, 2022


How Much Is Genuine Disadvantage Holding You Back?
Are you only holding half the problem accountable? CC0 photo by Kushagra on Pixahive "I’m not allowed to do this. I’m not allowed to feel...
Apr 5, 2022


No More Allowing Angry Misogynists To Set The Rules
A book on dating app culture demonstrates how misogyny persists when women *allow* it. When we don’t tolerate bad men, they disappear. I...
Apr 2, 2022


What If Women Refused To Have Sex With Abusive Men?
Would they die with their bike grip-shaped dick in their hand? My fantasy of what a North American new-members incel convention will look...
Mar 29, 2022


The 5 Best Books For Avoiding Abusive Relationships
Enjoy the abuse-free life I've always enjoyed I hope they're reading Dina McMillan's book. Photo by Oleg Magni from Pexels If there's one...
Mar 26, 2022


"But He Says He Loves Me!": The Women's Abuse Prevention Manual
Dina McMillan's book offers rock-solid advice on how abusive men think and strategize, and how to avoid them Avoiding abuse is easier...
Mar 17, 2022


"She Is Willing To Do Whatever It Takes To Be With Me"
Marilyn Manson's #MeToo moment has arrived, but his victims have nothing new to offer about how women get sucked into these abusive...
Mar 4, 2022


Don’t Be The Victim: Patch Your Brain
Your brain is like a computer network. One attacker can bring down the whole system if he finds your vulnerability first Image by GDJ on...
Mar 4, 2022


The #1 Red Flag Of The Abusive Man
The misogyny backlash is here. The government won't help. It's up to women to avoid violent men. Public domain photo by kalhh on Pixabay...
Feb 23, 2022


Time To Ask Certain Feminists Some Hard Questions
"Why doesn't she leave him?" and "Why does she tolerate such behavior?" are no longer off the table. Image by Chloe Lemieux from Pixabay...
Feb 4, 2022


When Is Rape Culture Totally Hot?
When women write misogynist kink for women. Because, like, pirate rape empowerment or something. Photo by Sophie Dituri on Flickr What if...
Jan 14, 2022
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